痛而不言是一种智慧，笑而不语是一种豁达

死生契阔, 与子成说。 执子之手, 与子偕老。 祝你, 生日快乐

寂静染成了夜的黑,

黑夜看似想掉眼泪。

我以为 真以为 紧紧抱着就能假装无所谓, 没所谓。

分不清黑与灰, 错与对

回忆再美, 却慢慢地在将我摧毁, 粉碎。

失眠, 好累。

I’m not exceptionally fond of decembers. Just the smell of it brings back heart aches. 

苦涩与甜蜜， 难以忘怀。 

This was what the weighing machine showed me the other day. Honestly speaking, I don’t know whether should I be happy or sad. Ambivalence you call ? Its exactly what I’m going through now. Blame it on your chipped tooth, blame it on your irregular lifestyle. But you clearly know the reason behind.

14.4 BMI is seriously insane. 

moon-muse:

Marriage From A Kid’s Perspective

1. HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHOM TO MARRY? 

You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like
sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep
the chips and dip coming.
— Alan, age 10

No person really decides before they grow up who they’re going to
marry. God decides it all way before, and you get to find out later who
you’re stuck with.– Kristen, age 10

2. WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED?
Twenty-three is the best age because you know the person FOREVER by then.
— Camille, age 10
 
3. HOW CAN A STRANGER TELL IF TWO PEOPLE ARE MARRIED?

You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at
the same kids.
— Derrick, age 8 

4. WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR MOM AND DAD HAVE IN COMMON

Both don’t want any more kids.
– Lori, age 8

5. WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE?

-Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know
each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough.
— Lynnette, age 8 

-On the first date, they just tell each other lies and that usually
gets them interested enough to go for a second date.
— Martin, age 10
 
6. WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?
-When they’re rich.
— Pam, age 7

The law says you have to be eighteen, so I wouldn’t want to mess with
that.
– - Curt, age 7

-The rule goes like this: If you kiss someone, then you should marry
them and have kids with them. It’s the right thing to do.
– - Howard, age 8
 
7. IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE OR MARRIED?
It’s better for girls to be single but not for boys. Boys need someone
to clean up after them.
— Anita, age 9

8. HOW WOULD THE WORLD BE DIFFERENT IF PEOPLE DIDN’T GET MARRIED?
There sure would be a lot of kids to explain, wouldn’t there?
— Kelvin, age 8

And the #1 Favorite is…

9. HOW WOULD YOU MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK?
Tell your wife that she looks pretty, even if she looks like a dump
truck.
— Ricky, age 10, way to go Ricky.

thedailywhat:

Kids These Days of the Day: MoMA recently released a second batch of “MoMA stories” from kids participating in the museum’s “I went to MoMA and…” project.

Among the more memorable entries was a complaint left behind by a very disappointed little girl named Annabelle who didn’t see a single “dinasour” at this so-called museum.

[laflaneuse8.]

HAHAHAHA! cute girl !

昨日， 我在某大学待了数小时， 外头下着绵绵细雨，站在窗前， 一阵冷风灌了过来， 起了我一身鸡皮疙瘩。 看着雨一滴滴地落在绿叶上， 又慢慢地滑下， 一点一点地渗入泥土里， 突然让我想起 艾略特 《荒原》的第一句： “四月是最残忍的季节”。 为何四月是最残忍的季节？ 因为过去都死了，万物萌生的春季在尸体上长出新的美丽未来。 这包含生命的喜悦，也有生命的惆怅。

APRIL is the cruellest month, breeding  

Lilacs out of the dead land, mixing  

Memory and desire, stirring  

Dull roots with spring rain.  

Winter kept us warm, covering         

Earth in forgetful snow, feeding  

A little life with dried tubers.

可惜，这里无春季。

女人啊， 

华丽的金钻，闪耀的珠光， 

为你赢得了女皇般虚妄的想象， 

岂知你的周遭只剩下势力的毒，傲慢的香，撩人也杀人的芬芳。 

女人啊， 

当你再度向财富致敬，向名利欢呼，向权力高举臂膀， 

请不必询问那只曾经歌咏的画眉， 

它已不知飞向何方， 

因为她的嗓音已经干枯喑哑， 

为了真实、尊荣和洁净灵魂的灭亡。 

女人啊， 

你那华丽的金钻，闪耀的珠宝， 

谁会注意你美丽外表下那钻石般的信仰。 

女人啊， 

当爱情违背了他的誓言， 

当你的绝望化作一颗颗复仇的泪水， 

谁会在意谁曾经走过你的心房。 

女人啊， 

当你为你所敬仰的爱情欢呼， 

为你心爱的人去歌唱， 

谁会为它而感动停驻在你的身边旁。 

女人啊， 

当你放下自尊去寻找曾经的梦想， 

谁会在乎你的背后有怎样的过往。 

女人啊， 

当你为你的爱情付出了圣洁， 

无法追随上帝的身旁， 

谁会为你的痴迷而感到感伤。 

女人啊， 

当你无知你的外表有什么样的光芒， 

却不知魔鬼早已向你伸出了肮脏的舌头。 

女人啊，

当你说出那甜美的语言却不知会遭到恶毒的眼光。 

女人啊，

当你抬头挺胸圣洁的面对世俗的眼光， 

却不知在背后有多少意淫的脸庞。 

女人啊， 

当你用你的方式去祭奠曾经的爱情， 

却不知毒蛇早已缠绕你全身，让你迷失了方向。 

女人啊， 

当你用夜莺般的歌声为人们唱到沙哑， 

他们只会唾弃你那流血的的嘴角和长白的脸庞。 

女人啊， 

当你为你的记忆拒绝那红色的玫瑰， 

他们拔掉那鲜艳的花朵，用黑色刺扎满你的全身，让容颜不再追随你的身旁。 

女人啊， 

如果钻石代表的了永恒， 

为什么他们把它缝制为你虚妄的外衣。 

女人啊， 

如果那爱情的香味代表了你的甜美， 

为什么上帝会拒绝你那诱人的香，把你推入魔女的殿堂。 

女人啊， 

当权力让你失去了自由， 

为什么人们还要把你放逐在开满花朵的草地， 

为你戴上冰冷的的枷锁，鞭打你满身的创伤。 

女人啊， 

当你看见一样的夜莺，闻到诱人的香，见到美丽的花朵， 

带着枷锁的她们却有着妒忌的眼光， 

用黑色的泥土粘满你的全身，让王子遗弃他曾经深爱的姑娘。 

女人啊， 

当你被人们用荆棘捆绑，满足了魔鬼的欲望， 

恐惧的人们让你却成为了唾沫的对象。 

女人啊， 

如果玫瑰代表爱情， 

那他们又怎么舍得在你找到幸福时将它的刺扎入你的全身， 

让爱人不敢沾染你带血的身躯，为你戴上金色的指环，灵魂得不到解放。 

女人啊， 

圣洁的脸表露不出你的信仰， 

纯洁的心不能传达你对上帝的向往, 

甜美的香只会让魔鬼在黑夜中寻找到你的身旁， 

当钻石为你而闪耀，照亮的只会是嫉妒的眼光， 

当权力让你不再自由，为你解开枷锁是断头台那冰冷的枪， 

你那夜莺般的歌声让人们流下的只是毒液般的嘴唇， 

去侵蚀王子的耳朵和美丽的衣裳， 

那些为你送上玫瑰的人们用花瓣盛引你鲜红的血液， 

还为魔鬼奉上高贵的赞美，让天使也离你而去，让你在黑暗中找不到方向， 

当你一直在找寻光明的天堂，魔鬼还在用他的唾液侵蚀你的身驱， 

迷惑天使误把你当作是魔女的伪装， 

你流下的眼泪被人们当作美丽的装饰， 

骄傲的围绕在火炉边向孩子们讲述是怎样把你灭亡。 

女人啊， 

当有人为你哭泣时， 

你能不能找到你该走的方向， 

带着迷人面容，诱人的香和华丽的泪珠，高傲的， 

步入那圣洁的殿堂 

————摘自莎士比亚《仲夏夜之梦》

凌晨三点半 

楼下传来车子发动的声音，打破了夜的宁静。

你爱停的车位，停着一辆白色汽车，

似曾相识的情景。

闭起双眸， 感受记忆里的温柔, 

想念，

想念 三百万 公尺外  

的你

‘爱情是叹息吹起的一阵烟；恋人的眼中有它净化了的火星；恋人的眼泪是它激起的波涛。它又是最智慧的疯狂，哽喉的苦味，吃不到嘴的蜜糖。’－《罗密欧与朱丽叶》

Love is a smoke raised with the fume of sighs;

Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers’ eyes;

Being vex’d, a sea nourish’d with lovers’ tears:

What is it else? a madness most discreet,

A choking gall and a preserving sweet.

－Romeo and Juliet

thedailywhat:

Yo Dawg, Etc. of the Day: Tortoises all the way down.

[reddit.]

thedailywhat:

Terrific Sticky Tape of the Day: Hinge-themed packing tape by South Korean design collective mmiinn (AKA Jeong-Min Lee and Hyoung-Min Park).

No word yet on pricing or availability, but yatzer suggests more info to come this fall.

[superpunch.]

I WANT ONEE TOOOOOOO~